Ignorant Judgments

So, a supposed friend left me this comment, and I want to repost it, and my response here just in case she doesn't bother to read the comment section to see that response.

Oh, and the comment was initiated by a spam comment that someone left on my blog post about me inquiring about information on a Canadian pharmacy.

'?? wow P. I wish you could see how bad the last comment looks. I hope you are taking care of yourself. I never stopped caring, just couldn't go along for the long ride you were heading on. Don't forget that ultimately you are the only one who can choose what you will and won't accept, what you will or won't focus on... the shit or the stars. It is easy to get lost when all you do is look for escape hatches. You beat the pain and the empty before, it is in you. I miss that girl.

an old friend.'

This is my response:

'For your information, that is a spam comment that I didn't notice. I have never inquired to anyone about any pharmacy, Canadian or otherwise. I have been sober for over a year now. And, at times it is very hard to stay that way considering all the people in my life who judge me and condemn me when they don't bother to find out what the truth is.

Piss off.'


It enrages me the number of people in my life that judge and condemn me based on misinformation. They see something or hear something and don't bother to even ask me if it's true. Though I still struggle with depression and physical issues I am doing very well, thank you. I'm writing again and I'm a damn good writer and proud of that. I'm doing everything I can to better my life and my children's lives despite things like being constantly emotionally abused and having physical problem after physical problem. Most recently I had to have emergency surgery to remove my gall bladder.

I don't need people in my life who love me conditionally and judge me based on things that aren't even true. Thank Goddess I have new friends that do love me unconditionally and do everything they can to better my life, even through the hard times, which is more than I can say for most people in the world.

Oh, and I'd like to add to my response that maybe if you had stuck around and offered me your support I would have been able to pick myself up much sooner. Thanks for nothing.